How your Subconscious Mind is Screwing up Your Life

Jul 08, 2022
Are you feeling stuck in life? Do you feel like you keep repeating the same toxic relationship dramas? Or are you making decent money, but can't get ahead? Or maybe it's your health: no matter what you do, you can't lose the weight.

Well, I have good and bad news for you. The good news is: you can 100% change your life circumstances. The bad news is: once you understand how it all works and what's possible, you'll be kicking yourself for not doing it sooner.

We Have Two Minds

First of all, you need to understand that we have two very different minds. We have the conscious mind and the subconscious mind. I'll explain how they function and you'll see why this is the KEY to upgrading your life.

From ages 0 to 7 we were in Theta, which registers below creative consciousness. During this time, we are a walking computer program, installing beliefs that are both true and untrue, depending on what your caretakers and society are saying and doing.

This means, if your parents said things like: "Money doesn't grow on trees" or "Money is the root of all evil"...I'm guessing your bank account currently reflects those beliefs (money is hard to get and money is evil).

Here's the thing: 95% of our life is ruled by the subconscious mind, which means we're on autopilot from childhood programs most of our life...until you upgrade these programs.

Most people believe their conscious mind is in control because those are the thoughts they hear, but that's false. While we were born with our subconscious mind intact, recording things as factual, our conscious mind didn't develop until around puberty...after ALL of these beliefs were already installed.

After age 7, we created programs through habits and repetition (think about learning how to tie your shoe, how to ride a bicycle, or how to drive a car). Once you do it enough times, it becomes a program and you don't really have to think about it.

One of the biggest issues is this: people spend a ton of money on books and seminars, feeling like they're getting inspired, but that's not how the subconscious mind works. Your conscious mind might be thinking: "Wow, my life has been changed!" but your subconscious mind learned nothing. Unless you read a book every day for 30 days.

How to Upgrade your Programs

There are about 4 main ways to upgrade your subconscious programs and some are easier than others, some take longer than others. I teach all of these techniques in my course (doors are open now - check it out here) or watch my 30 min Masterclass on 3 Secrets of Manifestation here.

  1. Habits: if you love the concepts in a book, read it once per month and make sure you're practicing the techniques daily.
  2. Hypnosis: we were in a state of hypnosis (theta) during ages 0 to 7, so this is a great way to upgrade your programs. I partnered up with my favorite NLP / Hypnosis company to share these gifts with you:

Hypnosis Bootcamp


NLP Hero

(My favorite): Limitless Labs

3. Super Learning: this is another favorite way for me to upgrade my and my clients' programs. Super Learning includes: NLP, EFT, Psych-K, biofield tuning, and energy work (which I'll teach you in my course).

4. Extreme Life Events: as you'll read in my upcoming book (or see in the Masterclass), I was near death in 2015 and that's what ultimately led me to upgrading my programs and seeking alternative forms of healing. Until then, I was a very lost woman who was numbing out during most of her adult life. You don't have to wait for an extreme life event, take control now by watching my masterclass or enrolling in my course, during which I'll live coach you for 8 weeks on upgrading your programs! I've had amazing results for myself and many women.


We need to stop blaming our problems on other people and take responsibility for where we're at in life, even though it was manifested subconsciously. That's the first step. The second step is to understand: our programs affect our thoughts, which affect our feelings, which impact our actions, which lead to our results.

If you're ready to upgrade your life, create healthy relationships, build wild amounts of wealth, and finally feel happy: it all starts with your mind. I hope to see you in my masterclass or course, as it's my mission in life to help as many people as possible to live their best lives.


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